If there is a celebrity that knows how to speak her mind, and cause controversy, it’s Jada Pinkett Smith. She’s made headlines before, discussing her “open marriage” with hubby Will Smith, but now, Jada is weighing in on whether or not you should stay with a cheating mate. Claim Your 20 Free Pregnancy Tests – Click Here
She told Redbook, when they asked what Will could ever do to make her stop loving him: “What is the thing that Will could do to make me not love him? That would make me abandon him? I can’t think of one. I’m sorry,” she told the magazine. “Except if he did something bad to the kids—now we’ve got a problem.”
Jada always has an opinion when it comes to touchy subjects, and a cheating spouse is no exception. Here’s what the actress and famous mom put on her Facebook page about the subject:
“Should I stay with a mate after she or he has cheated on me? (This is not referring to habitual cheaters. That is a different matter.) This is a very personal choice, and there is no right or wrong answer,” Jada wrote on her page. “If your partner is remorseful and is willing to work it out, I would suggest trying to look at it from this vantage point. My observation has been that when most people cheat, they are trying to solve a problem.”
“They are usually in some kind of emotional trouble or confusion that they believed the cheating would relieve,” Jada went on. “What’s interesting is that most of the time the cheating has nothing to do with YOU. Now the question becomes, are you willing to put all ego aside and reach for some deep compassion to try to figure out what the trouble is, and, as partners, try to solve it?”
“Know this, if someone has cheated on you who truly loves you, they have hurt themselves as much as they have hurt you,” she continued.
No matter how much controversy that Miss Jada stirs up, she is first and foremost, a mom to Willow and Jaden, and a wife to Will. The whole family was recently seen on vacation in Hawaii, taking surf lessons, paddle boarding and having a great time.
She talked on her Facebook page about how the family went canoeing at night, and how proud she was of Willow’s fearlessness, when she jumped into the water all alone, without a care in the world. Love her or hate her, you have to agree, Jada is one awesome mom!